Hi, I’m Kira.

If you’ve found your way here, chances are you know what it feels like to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. For years, I was lost. I was constantly searching for myself, trying to understand the deep dissatisfaction and silent exhaustion I felt every single day. This is the story of how the curtain finally lifted.

Growing Up Overnight & Fighting the Odds

My survival mode kicked in early. At just 20 years old, a devastating situation shook my world to its core—I lost my father. After years of enduring the stress of his illness, hospital visits, and fear at home, I had to become independent overnight, balancing a job with my studies just to survive.

Years later, the struggles continued when I decided to become a mother. After three heartbreaking years of trying, doctors looked at me with cold indifference and told me, "You won't be able to have children without IVF." But I did. My child is the living proof that statistics don’t define our reality.

The Awakening & The Breaking Point

For a long time, I lived exactly how society expected me to. But one day, I read a book that completely shook me awake. It gave me the courage to say, "I don't want to live like this anymore." I made the terrifying decision to get a divorce.

What followed was the ultimate test of my mental load. I was driving kilometers every single day to get to work and back home to my child. I completely reinvented myself professionally, retraining from an accountant to an auditor. I found a new partner, moved to a new city, and tried to manage the overwhelming stress of blending a family, my child’s adaptation to a new school, taking care of my mother after a severe surgery, and eventually... losing my job.

I was carrying everyone’s emotional baggage while completely neglecting my own. The pressure was suffocating.

The Turning Point: Healing the Inner Anger

The real shift happened when I discovered adult fairy tale therapy (narrative therapy), which opened the door to deep psychological healing. I dove into webinars, courses, and intense 1-on-1 therapy.

It was there that I finally learned the tools to dismantle my internal anger. I realized that suppressing my voice at work and at home was destroying my peace. Today, I am still learning, but I now know how to:

• Share my true feelings without fear.

• Communicate with my partner so tension and resentment don't build up in the background.

• Set firm boundaries in a corporate world that demands conformity.

• Balance raising a child, building a family, and protecting my own mental health.

• Actually feel joy again, rather than just surviving the day.

Why I Created This Space

I started this blog, wrote my satirical book on workplace absurdity, and designed my adult coloring books and gratitude journals because I wanted to turn my survival tools into your lifeline.

I want to share my experiences, the hard lessons I’ve learned, and the resources that brought me back to life, so you don't have to walk this path alone. If you are tired of being silenced, overwhelmed by your mental load, and ready to reclaim your peace—you are in the right place.

Let’s heal, laugh at the absurdities of life, and grow together.